This heartfelt dedication is not just a celebration of my parents, especially my dad, who serves as an outstanding example of how to gracefully navigate the senior years while being an affable presence for others.
Entering the realm of seniors, retirees, or the elderly often comes with unfair stereotypes. Seniors are sometimes perceived as long-winded, technologically challenged, fixated on the past, and critical of the youth. I want to challenge these stereotypes and share habits that can help us age gracefully, becoming highly affable and cherished seniors for both outsiders and immediate families.
Habit #1 – Always Have Something Nice to Say:
Taking a page from my dad's book, I've learned the power of a kind word. Whether addressing a former Member of Parliament or interacting with individuals of all ages and appearances, my dad taught me to use endearing terms like "sister" for older ladies and "pretty girl" for ladies of any age. The intention is not to deceive but to bring a moment of joy to their lives.
Habit #2 – Never Deny a Good Offer, Always Say Yes:
My dad's philosophy on accepting invitations, especially those involving food, is a valuable lesson. He taught us never to refuse our children's invitations, even if the food or place isn't our preference. Saying yes to these invitations builds connections and creates cherished memories.
Habit #3 – Be a Contributor and Helper:
A generous spirit defines my dad. His knack for farming and sharing the produce with friends exemplifies the importance of contributing to the well-being of others, both within the family and the community.
Habit #4 – Be a Happy Person:
Grumpiness repels, and my dad's cheerful demeanor, coupled with his knack for humor, made him a joy to be around. Choosing happiness over complaints is a habit that not only benefits oneself but also radiates positivity to those around.
Habit #5 – Always Make Yourself Happy:
Indulging in personal pleasures, like my dad's secret morning prawn treat, is a reminder to prioritize one's happiness. Balancing self-care with familial responsibilities is a key to contentment.
Habit #6 – Have Hobbies Just for Yourself:
Cultivating personal hobbies, whether it's reading, gardening, or cooking, ensures a fulfilling life even when friends are no longer present. My dad's love for solitary activities like reading the newspaper and tending to his garden reflects this principle.
Habit #7 – Be Contented:
Having experienced both financial highs and lows, my dad's contentment in any circumstance taught me the value of finding joy in the present moment. Regardless of external circumstances, a contented heart is a source of lasting happiness.
In their journey together, my mom and dad were an affable couple, embodying a legacy of love. As I strive to emulate their example, I'm reminded that the key to being a cherished senior lies in embracing these habits of kindness, gratitude, and contentment
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