THE UNKNOWN CARERS

Among the heated liars, cheats and deceits of Malaysia’s politic, there are stories to tell us what we do is more important than what the politicians are doing.

Here are two stories of two residents who will be checking out of our assisted living centre and go home. No they are not dead, no, they just got well from the tender loving care of my lovely team.

The first story is about Uncle Lim who came in 3 months ago paralysed on the right side after suffering a stroke. His condition was so serious that his loving family members, his wife and daughter called for immediate check in. We gave him a single room near our kitchen and the wife and daughter came everyday just to be with him.

A Chinese acupuncturist was arranged for him and our physio comes daily to work on his physical strength. On top of that our team of nurses and carers continue with the activities and simple physio. Within 2 month his right leg was showing signs of improvement and on 26 January 2020 I challenged him that he can go home within 3 months. He said not 3 months and wanted to go home in 1 month I said ok but you must listen to what we tell you to do. He did and exactly one month later, on 1 March 2020 he will walk out of our centre, albeit with some help, but he is going home.

The second story is about Aunty Leong, on the first day of Chinese New Year her son called me and told me they needed help urgently. He said PPUM forced them to check out because they fear the Covid 19 virus or infection may be caught after the surgery and they were discharged on the eve of Chinese New Year, 24 January 2020.

The son called me urgently at 11 am. And after my Chinese New Year lunch I went to the centre and met them at 4pm. The son, daughter and grandson and another lady were there. They told me the mother has heart condition, breathing problem and need oxygen concentrator and cannot walk because she was very weak. She weights about 70 kg and 85 years of age. She was dead weight and she won’t sleep on the first night back and the family just do not know what to do. They can’t bathe her as she was deadweight.

Got a box of Penang Tau Sah Peah as thank you gift
from Aunty Leong's family

I told them not to worry and told them to check in immediately the same evening because I saw the family members were all over sixty and look weak. I said you better check in before the rest of you needs to check in too if you try to care for the mother for another night. In fact, the whole family was worried that we will reject their mother.

I told them, it is for people who need us that we exist. The daughter asked me, which they think is the most important question, “how do we pay you and how much?”

Our reply is simple, let’s take care of the most important thing first. Bring your mother in so that she can be cared for first, then you all can rest. As for the money, we talk about it later. Yes I did tell her the amount. Their concern was not the fee, they thought like private hospitals they must pay a deposit first. On normal circumstances that is our procedure, but because it was Chinese New Year and we were very busy, we waived the protocol.

Here is the beautiful news. The mother came in with breathing problem, cannot walk and many other ailments. On 29 February 2020 she is walking out of our centre. She do not need for oxygen concentrator for the pass week and wow her recovery was remarkable.

Here I want to thank my dedicated team of nurses and care givers in both my centres who gave all their hearts, all their strength and all their love to help these two uncle and aunty in their miraculous recovery. Their faces and names will not be mentioned but they will forever be in the memories of those whose lives they touched and cared for. I must thank God for His providence and guidance during such situations and gave us he strength to care and to love.

Please share these beautiful stories with others in a world where some are selfishly serving themselves. There is hope and love out there.

Writing these stories brought some humanity back in me, and a tear or two in my eyes.